Susan Winter

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SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,500 people find (and keep) love. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan is a bestselling author (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage) who writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment. Susan’s 1350+ media credits include: THE NEW YORK TIMES, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, TODAY SHOW, ABC EVENING NEWS, CNBC, FOX, BBC, ITV NEWS, TALKTV UK, COSMO, VOGUE, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, MUMBAI MIRROR, and TIMES OF INDIA, Susan's a frequent radio guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Keynotes include: THE WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM, INTERNATIONAL MENTAL HEALTH FESTIVAL, CORE CLUB NYC, and 1880 SINGAPORE. Her award winning podcast, The Susan Winter Show, is on Spotify, Apple Music, and Amazon Prime. www.susanwinter.net

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Why Older Women Are Choosing Younger Men | The Reverse Age Gap Shift

Why Older Women Are Choosing Younger Men | The Reverse Age Gap Shift Susan Winter

2.1K views - 4 days ago

Stop Seeking Approval. Reclaim Your Power. | Dating & Self-Empowerment

Stop Seeking Approval. Reclaim Your Power. | Dating & Self-Empowerment Susan Winter

1.7K views - 2 weeks ago

Dating Burnout? Why You Feel Emotionally Unavailable (and How to Recover From Dating Exhaustion)

Dating Burnout? Why You Feel Emotionally Unavailable (and How to Recover From Dating Exhaustion) Susan Winter

1.2K views - 3 weeks ago

Blindsided Breakups Explained (when you wonder if it was ever real)

Blindsided Breakups Explained (when you wonder if it was ever real) Susan Winter

1.8K views - 1 month ago

Situationship or Real Relationship? How to Ask for More Without Losing Them

Situationship or Real Relationship? How to Ask for More Without Losing Them Susan Winter

1.3K views - 1 month ago

Confessed Your Feelings… and It Fell Flat? Here’s What To Do

Confessed Your Feelings… and It Fell Flat? Here’s What To Do Susan Winter

992 views - 1 month ago

How To Speak MAN— Masterclass & Live Coaching Event

How To Speak MAN— Masterclass & Live Coaching Event Susan Winter

736 views - 1 month ago

The Romance Scam Playbook: How To Spot The 5-Step Con

The Romance Scam Playbook: How To Spot The 5-Step Con Susan Winter

3.1K views - 1 month ago

Waiting On A Promise? When “Someday” Keeps You Stuck

Waiting On A Promise? When “Someday” Keeps You Stuck Susan Winter

1.2K views - 1 month ago

Irish singles conned out of €2.8 million by online romance fraud in 2025- Crime World Feature

Irish singles conned out of €2.8 million by online romance fraud in 2025- Crime World Feature Susan Winter

890 views - 1 month ago

Age Gap Relationships | What About The Future?

Age Gap Relationships | What About The Future? Susan Winter

2.4K views - 1 month ago

Older Women/Younger Men: Can It Work? Live Masterclass with Q&A

Older Women/Younger Men: Can It Work? Live Masterclass with Q&A Susan Winter

2.9K views - 3 months ago

Still Waiting for Closure After a Breakup? | Breakup Recovery

Still Waiting for Closure After a Breakup? | Breakup Recovery Susan Winter

1.4K views - 3 months ago

Intense Connection | Is It Destiny, or a Red Flag?

Intense Connection | Is It Destiny, or a Red Flag? Susan Winter

2.9K views - 3 months ago

Want Them Back? Retract Your Energy | Here’s How

Want Them Back? Retract Your Energy | Here’s How Susan Winter

4.4K views - 3 months ago

Becoming Player Proof | How To Tell If Their Feelings Are Real, or Just a Game

Becoming Player Proof | How To Tell If Their Feelings Are Real, or Just a Game Susan Winter

2K views - 4 months ago

Which ‘You’ Shows Up on a First Date? How to Feel Confident and Real in Early Dating

Which ‘You’ Shows Up on a First Date? How to Feel Confident and Real in Early Dating Susan Winter

932 views - 4 months ago

Who Do You Have to Be to Be Loved? Shapeshifting for Acceptance | Dating Advice

Who Do You Have to Be to Be Loved? Shapeshifting for Acceptance | Dating Advice Susan Winter

1.4K views - 4 months ago

Blindsided Breakup: The Avoidant’s Vanishing Act Explained

Blindsided Breakup: The Avoidant’s Vanishing Act Explained Susan Winter

3.2K views - 4 months ago

Missing Your Avoidant Ex? The Hidden Addiction Keeping You Stuck

Missing Your Avoidant Ex? The Hidden Addiction Keeping You Stuck Susan Winter

2.8K views - 5 months ago

Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back | Dating Advice

Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back | Dating Advice Susan Winter

2K views - 5 months ago

The FEAR of Loving a Younger Man — When You Didn’t Think It Could Happen | Age Gap Relationships

The FEAR of Loving a Younger Man — When You Didn’t Think It Could Happen | Age Gap Relationships Susan Winter

2.3K views - 5 months ago

Older Women/Younger Men: Why She’s Pulling Away—and How to Win Her Back

Older Women/Younger Men: Why She’s Pulling Away—and How to Win Her Back Susan Winter

9.5K views - 5 months ago

Losing Yourself to Please Others? Here’s How to Get Your Power Back

Losing Yourself to Please Others? Here’s How to Get Your Power Back Susan Winter

1.5K views - 5 months ago

Tired of Attracting Avoidants? Overcome Anxious Attachment with Emily Bradbury

Tired of Attracting Avoidants? Overcome Anxious Attachment with Emily Bradbury Susan Winter

1.3K views - 6 months ago

From Abusive to Healthy Love — How To Attract the Right Partner | Dating Advice

From Abusive to Healthy Love — How To Attract the Right Partner | Dating Advice Susan Winter

1.1K views - 6 months ago

Why Won't You LOVE Me? — 4 Hidden Reasons You Never Considered

Why Won't You LOVE Me? — 4 Hidden Reasons You Never Considered Susan Winter

2.6K views - 6 months ago

They’re Pulling Away – Here’s Why | Dating Advice

They’re Pulling Away – Here’s Why | Dating Advice Susan Winter

2.1K views - 6 months ago

How to Approach and Impress an Older Woman | Older Women/Younger Men Dating

How to Approach and Impress an Older Woman | Older Women/Younger Men Dating Susan Winter

18.7K views - 6 months ago

The Hidden Reasons You’re Not Finding Love with Damien Diecke

The Hidden Reasons You’re Not Finding Love with Damien Diecke Susan Winter

1.4K views - 6 months ago

It Takes Two: Why One Person Alone Can’t Save a Relationship | Relationship Advice

It Takes Two: Why One Person Alone Can’t Save a Relationship | Relationship Advice Susan Winter

1.2K views - 7 months ago

Early Red Flags in Dating: Spot Hidden Issues Before Heartache

Early Red Flags in Dating: Spot Hidden Issues Before Heartache Susan Winter

3.9K views - 7 months ago

Feeling Lonely? How to Attract Deep, Lasting Love | Dating Advice

Feeling Lonely? How to Attract Deep, Lasting Love | Dating Advice Susan Winter

3.5K views - 7 months ago

Love Bomb, No Contact, Then Back Again? The Avoidant’s Toxic Cycle

Love Bomb, No Contact, Then Back Again? The Avoidant’s Toxic Cycle Susan Winter

4.4K views - 7 months ago

Buddymoon: The New Honeymoon Trend Some Couples Are Trying

Buddymoon: The New Honeymoon Trend Some Couples Are Trying Susan Winter

1.1K views - 7 months ago

First Date Filters: How to Spot Red Flags and Find a Real Match

First Date Filters: How to Spot Red Flags and Find a Real Match Susan Winter

3.2K views - 8 months ago

Are You Being “Banksyed?”— The Confusing Slow Fade To A Breakup

Are You Being “Banksyed?”— The Confusing Slow Fade To A Breakup Susan Winter

2.2K views - 8 months ago

Dumped, But They Still Want to Talk? The Toxic Trap That Keeps You Hooked

Dumped, But They Still Want to Talk? The Toxic Trap That Keeps You Hooked Susan Winter

3.4K views - 8 months ago

Too Nice? That’s Why You Keep Getting Hurt | Dating Advice

Too Nice? That’s Why You Keep Getting Hurt | Dating Advice Susan Winter

5.7K views - 8 months ago

What is Banskying? The Latest Breakup Trend | FOX News interview

What is Banskying? The Latest Breakup Trend | FOX News interview Susan Winter

5.9K views - 8 months ago

Self-Love Through Movement: Reclaiming Your Inner Power | with Zarina Del Mar

Self-Love Through Movement: Reclaiming Your Inner Power | with Zarina Del Mar Susan Winter

1.2K views - 8 months ago

Why She Lost Interest— A Question of Pace & Chase | Dating Advice for Men

Why She Lost Interest— A Question of Pace & Chase | Dating Advice for Men Susan Winter

2K views - 9 months ago

Want to Feel Happier in Love and Life? Try This Proven Mindset Shift | Love Advice

Want to Feel Happier in Love and Life? Try This Proven Mindset Shift | Love Advice Susan Winter

3.2K views - 9 months ago

Awkward Silences? Here’s What to Say on a Date | Dating Advice

Awkward Silences? Here’s What to Say on a Date | Dating Advice Susan Winter

1.3K views - 9 months ago

Break the Cycle of Dating Disappointment—And Attract the Love You Deserve

Break the Cycle of Dating Disappointment—And Attract the Love You Deserve Susan Winter

3.3K views - 9 months ago

Beyond Beauty: Love’s Path to Purpose | with Angela Martini

Beyond Beauty: Love’s Path to Purpose | with Angela Martini Susan Winter

902 views - 9 months ago

Not Their Priority? Here’s How to Turn It Around | Dating Advice

Not Their Priority? Here’s How to Turn It Around | Dating Advice Susan Winter

7K views - 10 months ago

Stuck in the Makeup–Breakup Loop? Why You Can’t Let Go (and How to Break Free)

Stuck in the Makeup–Breakup Loop? Why You Can’t Let Go (and How to Break Free) Susan Winter

1.3K views - 10 months ago

Slow Dating in a Fast World: How to Find a Partner Who Wants Real Love

Slow Dating in a Fast World: How to Find a Partner Who Wants Real Love Susan Winter

3K views - 10 months ago

How To Spot a Liar— Before They Break Your Heart | with Laurie Gerber

How To Spot a Liar— Before They Break Your Heart | with Laurie Gerber Susan Winter

1.9K views - 10 months ago

“Why Can’t I Find Love?” — The Truth About Shame, Searching, and Self-Worth

“Why Can’t I Find Love?” — The Truth About Shame, Searching, and Self-Worth Susan Winter

5.9K views - 10 months ago

How to Be Happy: Training Your Mind for Optimism | Neil Wood

How to Be Happy: Training Your Mind for Optimism | Neil Wood Susan Winter

1.3K views - 10 months ago

They Sleep With You—But Won’t Commit. Here’s Why | Dating Advice

They Sleep With You—But Won’t Commit. Here’s Why | Dating Advice Susan Winter

3.3K views - 10 months ago

“I Know They’re Not the One… So Why Do I Still Want Them?” | Breakup Recovery

“I Know They’re Not the One… So Why Do I Still Want Them?” | Breakup Recovery Susan Winter

5.8K views - 11 months ago

What a Healthy Relationship REALLY Looks Like (And How It Should Feel) | Love Advice

What a Healthy Relationship REALLY Looks Like (And How It Should Feel) | Love Advice Susan Winter

6.5K views - 11 months ago

Age Gap Relationships: When AGE is the Problem | Dating Advice

Age Gap Relationships: When AGE is the Problem | Dating Advice Susan Winter

38.7K views - 11 months ago

Why Does a Healthy Relationship Feel ‘Uncomfortable?’ How to Stop Sabotaging Real Love

Why Does a Healthy Relationship Feel ‘Uncomfortable?’ How to Stop Sabotaging Real Love Susan Winter

3.2K views - 11 months ago

Honeymoon Phase Breakup? Why It Hurts So Much—and How to Heal

Honeymoon Phase Breakup? Why It Hurts So Much—and How to Heal Susan Winter

1.9K views - 11 months ago

The Inner Game of Dating: Success Tips For Men | with Kezia Noble

The Inner Game of Dating: Success Tips For Men | with Kezia Noble Susan Winter

2.4K views - 1 year ago

Letting Go of a Love That Never Happened — And How to Finally Get the Real Thing

Letting Go of a Love That Never Happened — And How to Finally Get the Real Thing Susan Winter

6.8K views - 1 year ago