Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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If you're a Gen X-er or Boomer who's ready to stop settling for a so-so sex life — you're in the right place. Dr. Stacy is a clinical sexologist and certified sex and intimacy coach who helps midlife adults feel more alive, more connected, and a whole lot less inhibited. From mismatched drives to painful sex to rediscovering desire after decades — this channel covers it all. No shame, no judgment, just real talk. Catch her on The Purple Passion Project podcast, streaming everywhere. And when you're ready to go further, join the Vibe Tribe — a private community built for midlife adults who want more. Link below, along with 1-on-1 coaching packages.

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Decades of Sexual Shame Dissolved in Her Forties—Here's How

Decades of Sexual Shame Dissolved in Her Forties—Here's How Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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55.Your Marriage Doesn't Need Compromise—It Needs This

55.Your Marriage Doesn't Need Compromise—It Needs This Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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54. Hormones Tanking Your Desire, Here's What Works

54. Hormones Tanking Your Desire, Here's What Works Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

136 views - 1 week ago

53. The Male Enhancement Trend That's Causing Permanent Damage

53. The Male Enhancement Trend That's Causing Permanent Damage Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

51 views - 2 weeks ago

52. The Intimacy Gap: Why We Don't Talk About What We Want

52. The Intimacy Gap: Why We Don't Talk About What We Want Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

63 views - 3 weeks ago

51. The Questions Men Are Too Embarrassed to Ask Their Doctor

51. The Questions Men Are Too Embarrassed to Ask Their Doctor Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

122 views - 1 month ago

50. Why Don't I Want Sex Anymore? The Desire Episode

50. Why Don't I Want Sex Anymore? The Desire Episode Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

208 views - 1 month ago

49. Pain, Trauma, and Intimacy: Why Nobody is Talking About This

49. Pain, Trauma, and Intimacy: Why Nobody is Talking About This Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

35 views - 1 month ago

48. Most Marriages Don't Explode, They Pause—Here's Why

48. Most Marriages Don't Explode, They Pause—Here's Why Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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47. They Taught Me Sex Was Sinful — Reclaiming My Pleasure

47. They Taught Me Sex Was Sinful — Reclaiming My Pleasure Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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46. Going Mono After Poly: How to Build Lasting Passion in a Committed Relationship

46. Going Mono After Poly: How to Build Lasting Passion in a Committed Relationship Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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45. When Sensual Confidence Becomes a Superpower

45. When Sensual Confidence Becomes a Superpower Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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44. 18 Years of Spicy: How They Keep Desire Alive in a Swinging Relationship During Menopause

44. 18 Years of Spicy: How They Keep Desire Alive in a Swinging Relationship During Menopause Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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43. Mismatched Libido? Here's What Intimacy Coaches Actually Tell Couples

43. Mismatched Libido? Here's What Intimacy Coaches Actually Tell Couples Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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42. The Real Reason Men Lose Their Erections (It's Not What You Think)

42. The Real Reason Men Lose Their Erections (It's Not What You Think) Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

27 views - 3 months ago

41. Your Best Sexual Years Are Still Ahead—Here's Why

41. Your Best Sexual Years Are Still Ahead—Here's Why Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

40 views - 3 months ago

40. Tired, Busy, Not in the Mood? Try This

40. Tired, Busy, Not in the Mood? Try This Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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39. From Disconnected to Embodied: Reclaiming Pleasure After Trauma

39. From Disconnected to Embodied: Reclaiming Pleasure After Trauma Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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38. Mismatched Libido in Your 40s? Here's What's Really Happening

38. Mismatched Libido in Your 40s? Here's What's Really Happening Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

20 views - 4 months ago

Midlife Sex Doesn't Have to Disappear

Midlife Sex Doesn't Have to Disappear Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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37. What Your Fetishes Say About Your Brain & Neurodiversity

37. What Your Fetishes Say About Your Brain & Neurodiversity Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

30 views - 4 months ago

36. Erectile Dysfunction? Here's What Actually Works

36. Erectile Dysfunction? Here's What Actually Works Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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35. Why Intimacy Disappears in Midlife (It Doesn't Have To)

35. Why Intimacy Disappears in Midlife (It Doesn't Have To) Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

506 views - 4 months ago

34. Erectile Fitness: The Prevention Nobody's Talking About

34. Erectile Fitness: The Prevention Nobody's Talking About Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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33. From Monogamy to BDSM — Why This 55-Year-Old Mom Never Looked Back

33. From Monogamy to BDSM — Why This 55-Year-Old Mom Never Looked Back Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

512 views - 5 months ago

32. Codependency Decoded: Why You Stay When You Should Leave

32. Codependency Decoded: Why You Stay When You Should Leave Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

361 views - 5 months ago

31. Spicing Things Up After Monogamy | Jennifer Marie Summers

31. Spicing Things Up After Monogamy | Jennifer Marie Summers Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

309 views - 5 months ago

30. Emotional Foreplay: Why Talking Dirty Really Means Vulnerability

30. Emotional Foreplay: Why Talking Dirty Really Means Vulnerability Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

299 views - 6 months ago

29. Half the Man, Whole New Problems | Sex & Intimacy After 230 Pounds Lost

29. Half the Man, Whole New Problems | Sex & Intimacy After 230 Pounds Lost Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

265 views - 6 months ago

28. Men Are Struggling With This—But It Doesn't Have to Be

28. Men Are Struggling With This—But It Doesn't Have to Be Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

564 views - 6 months ago

27. Sexual Trauma Doesn't Have to Define Your Relationships

27. Sexual Trauma Doesn't Have to Define Your Relationships Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

221 views - 6 months ago

26. It Only Takes One to Save Your Marriage

26. It Only Takes One to Save Your Marriage Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

314 views - 6 months ago

25. Can You Find Real Love on Dating Apps?

25. Can You Find Real Love on Dating Apps? Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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24. Men's Emotional Paralysis Is Destroying Their Relationships

24. Men's Emotional Paralysis Is Destroying Their Relationships Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

461 views - 7 months ago

Why Your Erotic Energy Is Your Superpower

Why Your Erotic Energy Is Your Superpower Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

351 views - 7 months ago

22. Secure vs. Insecure Attachment: Which One Are You Repeating?

22. Secure vs. Insecure Attachment: Which One Are You Repeating? Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

247 views - 7 months ago

21. Men Aren't Broken—They're Just Playing Old Rules | Jason Lange on Modern Desire

21. Men Aren't Broken—They're Just Playing Old Rules | Jason Lange on Modern Desire Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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20. Why Your Fantasy Life Could Transform Your Real Intimacy

20. Why Your Fantasy Life Could Transform Your Real Intimacy Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

310 views - 8 months ago

19. The Loneliness Crisis Destroying Modern Male Relationships

19. The Loneliness Crisis Destroying Modern Male Relationships Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

357 views - 8 months ago

Asking Questions Changes Everything in Your Relationship

Asking Questions Changes Everything in Your Relationship Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

263 views - 8 months ago

Men's unspoken struggle with vulnerability

Men's unspoken struggle with vulnerability Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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18. Why Asking Questions Is the New Foreplay

18. Why Asking Questions Is the New Foreplay Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

273 views - 8 months ago

Silence in the Bedroom? Here's What It Costs

Silence in the Bedroom? Here's What It Costs Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

655 views - 8 months ago

Confident Lovers Don't Have Performance Anxiety—Here's Why

Confident Lovers Don't Have Performance Anxiety—Here's Why Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

516 views - 8 months ago

The Orgasm Secret They Don't Teach You

The Orgasm Secret They Don't Teach You Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

606 views - 8 months ago

16. After Heartbreak: How to Reignite Real Passion & Trust

16. After Heartbreak: How to Reignite Real Passion & Trust Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

2.1K views - 9 months ago

Why foreplay starts before dinner, not in bed

Why foreplay starts before dinner, not in bed Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

45 views - 9 months ago

15. Learning a New Body: What Intimacy Looks Like After Transition

15. Learning a New Body: What Intimacy Looks Like After Transition Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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14. The Hidden Reason You're Not in the Mood

14. The Hidden Reason You're Not in the Mood Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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She Wants to Want You Again | This Technique Proves It Works

She Wants to Want You Again | This Technique Proves It Works Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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12. The Male Enhancement Industry Exposed-Facts vs Hype

12. The Male Enhancement Industry Exposed-Facts vs Hype Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

1.7K views - 10 months ago

11. Why Intimacy Feels Unsafe (And What to Do About It)

11. Why Intimacy Feels Unsafe (And What to Do About It) Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

526 views - 10 months ago

Sneak peek about hysterectomies and sex

Sneak peek about hysterectomies and sex Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

980 views - 10 months ago

Midlife Dating Fails? Your Nervous System Might Be the Culprit

Midlife Dating Fails? Your Nervous System Might Be the Culprit Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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9. She Thought She Was Broken—Then She Learned This About Her Body

9. She Thought She Was Broken—Then She Learned This About Her Body Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

630 views - 10 months ago

Want Toys, Lotions & Potions to Spice Things Up?

Want Toys, Lotions & Potions to Spice Things Up? Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

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Want a Sex Coach in Your Back Pocket?

Want a Sex Coach in Your Back Pocket? Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

33 views - 11 months ago

When Your Body Breaks, Does Your Marriage? Sex After Metabolic Collapse

When Your Body Breaks, Does Your Marriage? Sex After Metabolic Collapse Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

295 views - 11 months ago

5. Breaking the Rules: A Raw Look at Gender and Connection

5. Breaking the Rules: A Raw Look at Gender and Connection Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

279 views - 11 months ago

Your Pelvic Floor Is Tight and Tense—Here's Why That Ruins Everything

Your Pelvic Floor Is Tight and Tense—Here's Why That Ruins Everything Dr. Stacy Friedman-Intimacy Coach

1.1K views - 11 months ago