The Mature Male

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The Mature Male helps men aged 25-35 develop authentic masculinity, navigate career transitions, and heal father wounds. If you're professionally successful but feel directionless or stuck, this channel is for you. I'm Wes Lambert, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Massachusetts specializing in masculine development, career crisis recovery, and identity work for high- performing men. I use therapeutic frameworks like Internal Family Systems (IFS), Stoic philosophy, and career capital theory—not bro-science. WHAT YOU'LL FIND HERE: - Masculine psychology deep-dives - Career transition frameworks (Paul Millerd, Cal Newport, Viktor Frankl) - Father wound healing practices - IFS therapy insights for men - Self-fathering and attachment repair - Solo teaching videos + podcast conversations 🔔 Subscribe to become the man you were meant to be. 💼 Work with me: www.weslambert.me 📧 Newsletter: www.substack.weslambert.com

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Why Boys And Men of Color Have Always Been in Crisis - Jason Rosario

Why Boys And Men of Color Have Always Been in Crisis - Jason Rosario The Mature Male

23 views - 3 weeks ago

The Psychic Marginalization of Modern Men - Andrew Reiner

The Psychic Marginalization of Modern Men - Andrew Reiner The Mature Male

192 views - 4 weeks ago

From Trauma Victim to Gentle Man: Redefining Masculinity - Toby Gorniak

From Trauma Victim to Gentle Man: Redefining Masculinity - Toby Gorniak The Mature Male

16 views - 4 weeks ago

Building a Unicorn While Being Present: Faith, Family & Entrepreneurship - Chris Tinsley

Building a Unicorn While Being Present: Faith, Family & Entrepreneurship - Chris Tinsley The Mature Male

21 views - 1 month ago

Toxic Masculinity is Actually Underdeveloped Patriarchy - Christine E. Ohenewah

Toxic Masculinity is Actually Underdeveloped Patriarchy - Christine E. Ohenewah The Mature Male

114 views - 1 month ago

Why Emotional Suppression Destroys Men - Dr. Ron Stotts

Why Emotional Suppression Destroys Men - Dr. Ron Stotts The Mature Male

56 views - 1 month ago

The Social Programming Keeping Men Stuck in Their Heads - Marvin Wilkerson

The Social Programming Keeping Men Stuck in Their Heads - Marvin Wilkerson The Mature Male

26 views - 1 month ago

Mature Masculinity: The Complete Picture

Mature Masculinity: The Complete Picture The Mature Male

22 views - 1 month ago

From Clinically Dead to Paralympic Champion: Defying Limits - Mikael Avatar The Mature Male

13 views - 1 month ago

Why Men's Groups Work: Breaking Male Loneliness and Shame - Fred Rabinowitz

Why Men's Groups Work: Breaking Male Loneliness and Shame - Fred Rabinowitz The Mature Male

44 views - 1 month ago

How to Actually Open Up to Friends Without Feeling Weak - Jeremy Mohler

How to Actually Open Up to Friends Without Feeling Weak - Jeremy Mohler The Mature Male

23 views - 2 months ago

Why Men Hide Behind Anger - Ashanti Branch

Why Men Hide Behind Anger - Ashanti Branch The Mature Male

19 views - 2 months ago

Overcoming Male Defensiveness in Relationships - Jayson Gaddis

Overcoming Male Defensiveness in Relationships - Jayson Gaddis The Mature Male

139 views - 3 months ago

Living with ADHD: When Your Superpower Feels Like a Curse - Peter Shankman

Living with ADHD: When Your Superpower Feels Like a Curse - Peter Shankman The Mature Male

12 views - 3 months ago

Male Loneliness: How to Build Brotherhood That Lasts - Brad Gage

Male Loneliness: How to Build Brotherhood That Lasts - Brad Gage The Mature Male

52 views - 3 months ago

Male Attachment Wounds: Touch, Isolation, and the Father You Never Had - Duey Freeman

Male Attachment Wounds: Touch, Isolation, and the Father You Never Had - Duey Freeman The Mature Male

103 views - 3 months ago

Why Men Struggle with Healthcare, Friendship, and Vulnerability - Dr. Dominick Shattuck

Why Men Struggle with Healthcare, Friendship, and Vulnerability - Dr. Dominick Shattuck The Mature Male

121 views - 3 months ago

When Being Strong Makes You Weak - Daniel Guinness

When Being Strong Makes You Weak - Daniel Guinness The Mature Male

27 views - 3 months ago

My Dad Died an Alcoholic Stranger - Jonathan Jacobs

My Dad Died an Alcoholic Stranger - Jonathan Jacobs The Mature Male

8 views - 3 months ago

Why Working 80 Hours in Your 20s Will Destroy Your Career - Alex Pang

Why Working 80 Hours in Your 20s Will Destroy Your Career - Alex Pang The Mature Male

21 views - 3 months ago

Why Everything Is About Sex But No One Is Having Sex - Justin Ross

Why Everything Is About Sex But No One Is Having Sex - Justin Ross The Mature Male

74 views - 4 months ago

The Left's Men Problem: Why Politics Lost Working Class Males - Ross Morales Rocketto

The Left's Men Problem: Why Politics Lost Working Class Males - Ross Morales Rocketto The Mature Male

852 views - 4 months ago

How Fear Is Ruining Your Relationship - Stuart Motola

How Fear Is Ruining Your Relationship - Stuart Motola The Mature Male

18 views - 4 months ago

The Male Mental Health Crisis No One Talks About - Lee Chambers

The Male Mental Health Crisis No One Talks About - Lee Chambers The Mature Male

24 views - 4 months ago

Why Patriarchy Actually Hurts Men Too - Jake Stika

Why Patriarchy Actually Hurts Men Too - Jake Stika The Mature Male

162 views - 4 months ago

Why High Achievers Feel Empty Inside - Tripp Lanier

Why High Achievers Feel Empty Inside - Tripp Lanier The Mature Male

35 views - 5 months ago

The Male Loneliness Epidemic Destroying Fathers - Nick Firchau

The Male Loneliness Epidemic Destroying Fathers - Nick Firchau The Mature Male

17 views - 5 months ago

Transforming Toxic Masculinity: A Therapist's Journey - Marlo Pedroso

Transforming Toxic Masculinity: A Therapist's Journey - Marlo Pedroso The Mature Male

21 views - 5 months ago

Why 66% of Dads Think They're Failing - Jeff Hittner

Why 66% of Dads Think They're Failing - Jeff Hittner The Mature Male

12 views - 5 months ago

Stop Justifying Your Anger: What Men Get Wrong About Rage - Davy Lazar

Stop Justifying Your Anger: What Men Get Wrong About Rage - Davy Lazar The Mature Male

8 views - 5 months ago

Why Most Men Live Behind a Mask (And How to Remove It) - Yaron Engler

Why Most Men Live Behind a Mask (And How to Remove It) - Yaron Engler The Mature Male

18 views - 5 months ago

The Male Role Model Crisis Every Man Must Know - Pasco Ashton

The Male Role Model Crisis Every Man Must Know - Pasco Ashton The Mature Male

16 views - 5 months ago

From Federal Drug Charges to Recovery Expert: The Transformation Story - Jesse Harless

From Federal Drug Charges to Recovery Expert: The Transformation Story - Jesse Harless The Mature Male

10 views - 5 months ago

How to Bridge the Polarizing Political Divide - Sean Harvey

How to Bridge the Polarizing Political Divide - Sean Harvey The Mature Male

32 views - 5 months ago

Stop This One Habit to Double Your Testosterone - Dr. John Gray

Stop This One Habit to Double Your Testosterone - Dr. John Gray The Mature Male

132 views - 5 months ago

The Best Year Ever Project: How To Break Out of Your Comfort Zone - Dr. Ryan McKelley

The Best Year Ever Project: How To Break Out of Your Comfort Zone - Dr. Ryan McKelley The Mature Male

56 views - 5 months ago

Why Men Struggle With Friendship (And How to Fix It) - Todd Adams

Why Men Struggle With Friendship (And How to Fix It) - Todd Adams The Mature Male

75 views - 5 months ago

Why 66% of Young Men Feel Unknown (The Real Reason) - Johnny Cole

Why 66% of Young Men Feel Unknown (The Real Reason) - Johnny Cole The Mature Male

96 views - 5 months ago

The Death That Taught Me How to Live - Kenny Mammarella-D'Cruz

The Death That Taught Me How to Live - Kenny Mammarella-D'Cruz The Mature Male

12 views - 6 months ago

From Self-Improvement Addiction to Self-Acceptance - Zac Phillips

From Self-Improvement Addiction to Self-Acceptance - Zac Phillips The Mature Male

94 views - 6 months ago

Why Young Men Are Failing in School & Work - Brendan Case

Why Young Men Are Failing in School & Work - Brendan Case The Mature Male

32 views - 6 months ago

The Shocking Evolution of the American Male - Timothy Wienecke

The Shocking Evolution of the American Male - Timothy Wienecke The Mature Male

20 views - 6 months ago

Why Men Can't Express Emotions (The Real Reason) | Dr. Ronald Levant

Why Men Can't Express Emotions (The Real Reason) | Dr. Ronald Levant The Mature Male

85 views - 6 months ago

What Most Therapists Don't Understand About Men - Matt Englar-Carlson

What Most Therapists Don't Understand About Men - Matt Englar-Carlson The Mature Male

30 views - 6 months ago

The Hidden Mental Health Crisis Facing Fathers - Dan Singley

The Hidden Mental Health Crisis Facing Fathers - Dan Singley The Mature Male

22 views - 6 months ago

Online Dating Is Dead: Why Apps Failed And What's Next - Scot McKay

Online Dating Is Dead: Why Apps Failed And What's Next - Scot McKay The Mature Male

78 views - 7 months ago

From Isolation to Brotherhood: Why Men Need Other Men - Larry Hagner

From Isolation to Brotherhood: Why Men Need Other Men - Larry Hagner The Mature Male

41 views - 7 months ago

What's Really Going On With Modern Men? | Jindy Mann

What's Really Going On With Modern Men? | Jindy Mann The Mature Male

21 views - 7 months ago

From Army Tank Commander to $10M Podcast Empire - John Lee Dumas

From Army Tank Commander to $10M Podcast Empire - John Lee Dumas The Mature Male

48 views - 7 months ago

The Life Changing Spiritual Awakening Every Man Needs - Rob Thompson

The Life Changing Spiritual Awakening Every Man Needs - Rob Thompson The Mature Male

43 views - 8 months ago

From PTSD to Purpose: Redefining Masculine Strength - Leon McFadden

From PTSD to Purpose: Redefining Masculine Strength - Leon McFadden The Mature Male

33 views - 8 months ago

Men Don't Need Fixing: They Need This One Thing - Gary Barker

Men Don't Need Fixing: They Need This One Thing - Gary Barker The Mature Male

68 views - 8 months ago

Why Being Wrong Actually Makes You Strong - Cesar Cardona

Why Being Wrong Actually Makes You Strong - Cesar Cardona The Mature Male

25 views - 8 months ago

Why Your Partner Keeps Criticizing You & How to Stop It | Dr. John Williams

Why Your Partner Keeps Criticizing You & How to Stop It | Dr. John Williams The Mature Male

19 views - 8 months ago

How Trauma Changes Your Brain Forever - Tim Fletcher

How Trauma Changes Your Brain Forever - Tim Fletcher The Mature Male

43 views - 8 months ago

The 6 Attachment Styles That Control Your Love Life - Bruce Muzik

The 6 Attachment Styles That Control Your Love Life - Bruce Muzik The Mature Male

1.4K views - 8 months ago

The Secret Fear Holding Men Back - Dr. Avrum Weiss

The Secret Fear Holding Men Back - Dr. Avrum Weiss The Mature Male

48 views - 8 months ago

The Hidden Addiction Destroying Most Men's Lives - Porn Free Millennial

The Hidden Addiction Destroying Most Men's Lives - Porn Free Millennial The Mature Male

30 views - 8 months ago

Why You're Losing Every Argument (And What To Do)

Why You're Losing Every Argument (And What To Do) The Mature Male

18 views - 8 months ago

5 Powerful Stoic Practices from Marcus Aurelius to Transform Your Life

5 Powerful Stoic Practices from Marcus Aurelius to Transform Your Life The Mature Male

5 views - 8 months ago