Sheila Wray Gregoire

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Changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to something healthy, evidence-based, and biblical. Coming to you from BareMarriage.com!

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Are We Permissive Parenting Sexist Churches?

Are We Permissive Parenting Sexist Churches? Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.3K views - 1 week ago

Why Did Purity Culture Fail?

Why Did Purity Culture Fail? Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.1K views - 3 weeks ago

Did Generational Trauma Cause Bad Christian Marriage Advice?

Did Generational Trauma Cause Bad Christian Marriage Advice? Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.2K views - 3 weeks ago

How Josh Howerton and Every Man's Battle Disguise Sexual Assault as “Godly” Advice

How Josh Howerton and Every Man's Battle Disguise Sexual Assault as “Godly” Advice Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.1K views - 4 weeks ago

If Your Church Isn’t Safe For Abuse Survivors, It Isn’t Safe!

If Your Church Isn’t Safe For Abuse Survivors, It Isn’t Safe! Sheila Wray Gregoire

913 views - 1 month ago

Alisa Childers Owes Evangelical Women an Apology: We Respond to THAT Podcast on The Great Sex Rescue

Alisa Childers Owes Evangelical Women an Apology: We Respond to THAT Podcast on The Great Sex Rescue Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.9K views - 1 month ago

Keith & Sheila Respond to Crazy Clips (Is it That Jezebel Spirit Again?)

Keith & Sheila Respond to Crazy Clips (Is it That Jezebel Spirit Again?) Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.1K views - 1 month ago

Jesus didn't follow the Billy Graham Rule with Danielle Strickland

Jesus didn't follow the Billy Graham Rule with Danielle Strickland Sheila Wray Gregoire

455 views - 1 month ago

Why Being a Husband Isn’t the Ultimate Expression of Christian Manhood

Why Being a Husband Isn’t the Ultimate Expression of Christian Manhood Sheila Wray Gregoire

721 views - 1 month ago

Can Complementarians Have As Much Fun in the Bedroom?

Can Complementarians Have As Much Fun in the Bedroom? Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.9K views - 1 month ago

Men of Virtue with Zachary Wagner

Men of Virtue with Zachary Wagner Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.3K views - 1 month ago

Why Does Matt Chandler Think Egalitarianism is the Opposite of Patriarchy?

Why Does Matt Chandler Think Egalitarianism is the Opposite of Patriarchy? Sheila Wray Gregoire

2K views - 1 month ago

When Your Parenting Needs a Fresh Start--Without Messing Up Your Kids! with Wendy Snyder

When Your Parenting Needs a Fresh Start--Without Messing Up Your Kids! with Wendy Snyder Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.1K views - 1 month ago

THIS Is Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Doesn't Work!

THIS Is Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Doesn't Work! Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.7K views - 1 month ago

The Billy Graham Rule and What It Does to Men Too

The Billy Graham Rule and What It Does to Men Too Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.9K views - 1 month ago

A Teamwork vs. Hierarchy Approach to a Christian Marriage: What the Data Says!

A Teamwork vs. Hierarchy Approach to a Christian Marriage: What the Data Says! Sheila Wray Gregoire

1K views - 1 month ago

Evangelical S3x Advice Mimics Hookup Culture!

Evangelical S3x Advice Mimics Hookup Culture! Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.8K views - 2 months ago

For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn Talks Lust and Sex

For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn Talks Lust and Sex Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.5K views - 2 months ago

Do Your EMOTIONS Get to Matter When It Comes to Sex? Or Is it "Just Do It" Anyway?

Do Your EMOTIONS Get to Matter When It Comes to Sex? Or Is it "Just Do It" Anyway? Sheila Wray Gregoire

1K views - 2 months ago

Mental Load in For Men Only: Why Are They Making Things Worse?!?

Mental Load in For Men Only: Why Are They Making Things Worse?!? Sheila Wray Gregoire

901 views - 2 months ago

Want Him to Lead or Just to Take Initiative? Christian Marriage Advice Uses the Wrong Words!

Want Him to Lead or Just to Take Initiative? Christian Marriage Advice Uses the Wrong Words! Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.6K views - 2 months ago

The Guardian Goes to Wife School! Plus Let's Talk Unqualified Marriage Influencers

The Guardian Goes to Wife School! Plus Let's Talk Unqualified Marriage Influencers Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.9K views - 2 months ago

The Problems with For Men Only by Jeff & Shaunti Feldhahn

The Problems with For Men Only by Jeff & Shaunti Feldhahn Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.5K views - 2 months ago

I Belong to Me with Tia Levings

I Belong to Me with Tia Levings Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.6K views - 2 months ago

Martha Peace in The Excellent Wife Says Your Feelings Are Sinful

Martha Peace in The Excellent Wife Says Your Feelings Are Sinful Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.6K views - 2 months ago

Why Christian Books Taught Women to Stay Silent During Sex

Why Christian Books Taught Women to Stay Silent During Sex Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.3K views - 2 months ago

A R@pe Academy?!? How Evangelical Teaching Feeds This Trash!

A R@pe Academy?!? How Evangelical Teaching Feeds This Trash! Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.9K views - 2 months ago

Who Carries the Emotional Labor for Sex?

Who Carries the Emotional Labor for Sex? Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.2K views - 2 months ago

How to Vet a Church Using Its Website to See if the Church is Healthy!

How to Vet a Church Using Its Website to See if the Church is Healthy! Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.3K views - 3 months ago

Why is Every Man's Battle So Creepy?!?

Why is Every Man's Battle So Creepy?!? Sheila Wray Gregoire

7.4K views - 3 months ago

Are We Supposed to Honor Abusive Parents?!? Let's Rethink This with Dr. Steven Tracy!

Are We Supposed to Honor Abusive Parents?!? Let's Rethink This with Dr. Steven Tracy! Sheila Wray Gregoire

683 views - 3 months ago

Husbands Should Submit to Wives Too! Dr. Steven Tracy Talks Ephesians 5:21

Husbands Should Submit to Wives Too! Dr. Steven Tracy Talks Ephesians 5:21 Sheila Wray Gregoire

1K views - 3 months ago

New Research into Modesty Messaging, Sexual Harassment in Church, Plus We Answer Your Questions!

New Research into Modesty Messaging, Sexual Harassment in Church, Plus We Answer Your Questions! Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.9K views - 3 months ago

Why Do So Many Duggar Men End Up Being PDFiles? The Underlying Reason

Why Do So Many Duggar Men End Up Being PDFiles? The Underlying Reason Sheila Wray Gregoire

22K views - 3 months ago

Let's Talk Adult ADHD Diagnosis, Marriage, and Gender Roles!

Let's Talk Adult ADHD Diagnosis, Marriage, and Gender Roles! Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.6K views - 3 months ago

Is Lust Really Every Man's Battle? Why Some Evangelical Men Can't Give Up the Idea

Is Lust Really Every Man's Battle? Why Some Evangelical Men Can't Give Up the Idea Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.7K views - 3 months ago

Did Purity Culture Cause Developmental Trauma--and Kill Libido?

Did Purity Culture Cause Developmental Trauma--and Kill Libido? Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.7K views - 3 months ago

Focus on the Family's Logical Fallacies about Submission

Focus on the Family's Logical Fallacies about Submission Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.5K views - 4 months ago

You're Allowed to Want Stuff! Talking Desire and Low Libido with Jay Stringer

You're Allowed to Want Stuff! Talking Desire and Low Libido with Jay Stringer Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.8K views - 4 months ago

Let's Have a Realistic Talk about Waiting for the Wedding Night and Sexual Pain Disorders!

Let's Have a Realistic Talk about Waiting for the Wedding Night and Sexual Pain Disorders! Sheila Wray Gregoire

6.4K views - 4 months ago

FAMISHED: How Purity Culture Taught Girls to Shrink. A Convo on Eating Disorders with Anna Rollins

FAMISHED: How Purity Culture Taught Girls to Shrink. A Convo on Eating Disorders with Anna Rollins Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.5K views - 4 months ago

How Much Money Is the Evangelical World Making off of Hurting Women?

How Much Money Is the Evangelical World Making off of Hurting Women? Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.1K views - 4 months ago

What (Still) Surprised Us Making our Docuseries on Emerson Eggerichs' Love & Respect

What (Still) Surprised Us Making our Docuseries on Emerson Eggerichs' Love & Respect Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.1K views - 4 months ago

Obligation Sex Ruins Intimacy--But Here's the Down Low on What It is!

Obligation Sex Ruins Intimacy--But Here's the Down Low on What It is! Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.1K views - 4 months ago

Why It Matters that Jeffrey Epstein Found James Dobson's Articles Helpful

Why It Matters that Jeffrey Epstein Found James Dobson's Articles Helpful Sheila Wray Gregoire

7.2K views - 5 months ago

Are Men Really Useless and Violent if They're Not in Charge? Response to Doug Wilson & Kevin DeYoung

Are Men Really Useless and Violent if They're Not in Charge? Response to Doug Wilson & Kevin DeYoung Sheila Wray Gregoire

3.1K views - 5 months ago

To Heal or To Harm: Making Sense of Weaponized Bible Verses feat. Steven Tracy

To Heal or To Harm: Making Sense of Weaponized Bible Verses feat. Steven Tracy Sheila Wray Gregoire

4.3K views - 5 months ago

Rebecca Gets an Adult ADHD Diagnosis--And What this Means for our Mental Load Advice!

Rebecca Gets an Adult ADHD Diagnosis--And What this Means for our Mental Load Advice! Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.2K views - 5 months ago

Why the Complementarian Bar for Men is in the Basement: Philip Yancey, Jonathan Pokluda, and more

Why the Complementarian Bar for Men is in the Basement: Philip Yancey, Jonathan Pokluda, and more Sheila Wray Gregoire

4K views - 5 months ago

Has Jonathan Pokluda Learned Anything about Not Objectifying Women from Three Years Ago?

Has Jonathan Pokluda Learned Anything about Not Objectifying Women from Three Years Ago? Sheila Wray Gregoire

3K views - 5 months ago

Complementarianism is Built on Faulty Greek and Bad Theology, feat. Lydia Kaiser

Complementarianism is Built on Faulty Greek and Bad Theology, feat. Lydia Kaiser Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.4K views - 5 months ago

Horrible Takes on Philip Yancey's 8 Year Affair

Horrible Takes on Philip Yancey's 8 Year Affair Sheila Wray Gregoire

11K views - 6 months ago

Desiring God Thinks Marriage for Women is Like Riding on the Back of a Tandem Bike?

Desiring God Thinks Marriage for Women is Like Riding on the Back of a Tandem Bike? Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.1K views - 6 months ago

Evangelicals Shouldn't Be Embarrassing: The Oklahoma Student's Essay and How Our Faith Has Changed

Evangelicals Shouldn't Be Embarrassing: The Oklahoma Student's Essay and How Our Faith Has Changed Sheila Wray Gregoire

3K views - 6 months ago

How Do We PREVENT Our Kids from Getting Hurt by Complementarianism?

How Do We PREVENT Our Kids from Getting Hurt by Complementarianism? Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.8K views - 6 months ago

“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza! Did an Incel Say it, or a Pastor?

“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza! Did an Incel Say it, or a Pastor? Sheila Wray Gregoire

5.9K views - 6 months ago

Do Complementarians Really Believe Women are "Equal in Value, but Different Roles"? #evangelicalism

Do Complementarians Really Believe Women are "Equal in Value, but Different Roles"? #evangelicalism Sheila Wray Gregoire

1.1K views - 7 months ago

Why I'm Upset that Christian Authors Are Coercing Wives into Sending Nude Photos

Why I'm Upset that Christian Authors Are Coercing Wives into Sending Nude Photos Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.3K views - 7 months ago

How Missionary Kids Unmask the Myths of Evangelicalism featuring Holly Berkley Fletcher

How Missionary Kids Unmask the Myths of Evangelicalism featuring Holly Berkley Fletcher Sheila Wray Gregoire

2.9K views - 7 months ago

Why We Need to Stop the Harm that So Many Christian Marriage Books Cause!

Why We Need to Stop the Harm that So Many Christian Marriage Books Cause! Sheila Wray Gregoire

838 views - 7 months ago