Coach Ryan

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Your favorite internet dating coach, relationship coach, and life coach! Specializing in all things to do with dating and relationships. Book a 1:1 session to help address your situation! Emotional Intelligence Course now available! Free courses also available. Click link in bio to access courses and book 1:1 zoom video sessions!

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Why Dismissive Avoidants Leave Good Partners to Chase “The One”

Why Dismissive Avoidants Leave Good Partners to Chase “The One” Coach Ryan

6.8K views - 2 days ago

The Predictable Relationship Pattern of Unhealed Avoidants

The Predictable Relationship Pattern of Unhealed Avoidants Coach Ryan

13K views - 5 days ago

They Discarded You…. Why Are They Texting Again?? (Dismissive Avoidant Breadcrumbing)

They Discarded You…. Why Are They Texting Again?? (Dismissive Avoidant Breadcrumbing) Coach Ryan

6.8K views - 1 week ago

Lonely Relationship: Long Term Relationships & Marriages With Dismissive Avoidants

Lonely Relationship: Long Term Relationships & Marriages With Dismissive Avoidants Coach Ryan

8.6K views - 2 weeks ago

5 Things Dismissive Avoidants Say Before They Discard You

5 Things Dismissive Avoidants Say Before They Discard You Coach Ryan

3.5K views - 2 weeks ago

How a Secure Person Handles an Avoidant Who Pulls Away

How a Secure Person Handles an Avoidant Who Pulls Away Coach Ryan

32.2K views - 3 weeks ago

Dismissive Avoidant Love Bombing: The “Shared Fantasy” That Never Comes Back

Dismissive Avoidant Love Bombing: The “Shared Fantasy” That Never Comes Back Coach Ryan

12.3K views - 4 weeks ago

Why Avoidants Discard You During Stress (It’s Not Random)

Why Avoidants Discard You During Stress (It’s Not Random) Coach Ryan

23.7K views - 4 weeks ago

Why Dismissive Avoidants Appear to Have No Empathy

Why Dismissive Avoidants Appear to Have No Empathy Coach Ryan

4.9K views - 4 weeks ago

Dismissive Avoidants Sometimes Cheat Because You Won’t

Dismissive Avoidants Sometimes Cheat Because You Won’t Coach Ryan

2.2K views - 4 weeks ago

Avoidant or Narcissist? Why the Behavior Feels the Same (But Isn’t)

Avoidant or Narcissist? Why the Behavior Feels the Same (But Isn’t) Coach Ryan

3.8K views - 4 weeks ago

Why Loving a Dismissive Avoidant Feels ADDICTIVE….. and Why It DESTROYS You

Why Loving a Dismissive Avoidant Feels ADDICTIVE….. and Why It DESTROYS You Coach Ryan

7.2K views - 4 weeks ago

Why Couples Therapy with Avoidants Crashes and Burns

Why Couples Therapy with Avoidants Crashes and Burns Coach Ryan

2.3K views - 4 weeks ago

S*x With Dismissive Avoidants 💔

S*x With Dismissive Avoidants 💔 Coach Ryan

30.3K views - 4 weeks ago

Why They Went COLD After Closeness: Dismissive Avoidant Deactivation

Why They Went COLD After Closeness: Dismissive Avoidant Deactivation Coach Ryan

6.4K views - 4 weeks ago

AVOIDANT DISCARDS: Why They Do It, Why They Don’t Bond, and How To Never Experience It Agajn

AVOIDANT DISCARDS: Why They Do It, Why They Don’t Bond, and How To Never Experience It Agajn Coach Ryan

4.3K views - 4 weeks ago

Avoidants REVEAL Themselves Through Their Language

Avoidants REVEAL Themselves Through Their Language Coach Ryan

2.9K views - 4 weeks ago

Avoidant Attachment or Narcissism? How to Tell What You’re REALLY Dealing With

Avoidant Attachment or Narcissism? How to Tell What You’re REALLY Dealing With Coach Ryan

1.9K views - 4 weeks ago

That Viral “Take” on Men Bonding NEEDS a Correction

That Viral “Take” on Men Bonding NEEDS a Correction Coach Ryan

1.5K views - 4 weeks ago

What To Do After an Avoidant Discards You (Why It Hurts So Much & How to Heal)

What To Do After an Avoidant Discards You (Why It Hurts So Much & How to Heal) Coach Ryan

5.1K views - 4 weeks ago

When The Avoidant Says “The Spark is Gone”

When The Avoidant Says “The Spark is Gone” Coach Ryan

2.3K views - 4 weeks ago

Avoidants Have Very PREDICTABLE Relationship Histories

Avoidants Have Very PREDICTABLE Relationship Histories Coach Ryan

10.8K views - 4 weeks ago

What The Avoidant Thinks When They’re Pulling Away

What The Avoidant Thinks When They’re Pulling Away Coach Ryan

3.6K views - 1 month ago

If Dismissive Avoidants were HONEST

If Dismissive Avoidants were HONEST Coach Ryan

48.4K views - 1 month ago

Physical Intimacy (s*x) With Dismissive Avoidants

Physical Intimacy (s*x) With Dismissive Avoidants Coach Ryan

11K views - 1 month ago

Why you can’t stop thinking about someone that treated you like CRAP 💩

Why you can’t stop thinking about someone that treated you like CRAP 💩 Coach Ryan

3.8K views - 1 month ago

Watch how anxious vs SECURE people handle avoidant behavior

Watch how anxious vs SECURE people handle avoidant behavior Coach Ryan

2.6K views - 1 month ago

Normal Breakups vs DISCARDS

Normal Breakups vs DISCARDS Coach Ryan

3K views - 1 month ago

Why no contact with the avoidant ex is CRITICAL

Why no contact with the avoidant ex is CRITICAL Coach Ryan

13.5K views - 1 month ago

Why it’s so HARD to let go of the avoidant

Why it’s so HARD to let go of the avoidant Coach Ryan

2.4K views - 1 month ago

You can’t “fix” the avoidant by loving them harder

You can’t “fix” the avoidant by loving them harder Coach Ryan

1.9K views - 1 month ago

When the avoidant ex seems UNAFFECTED by the breakup

When the avoidant ex seems UNAFFECTED by the breakup Coach Ryan

5.1K views - 1 month ago

Dismissive avoidants in long term relationships and marriages

Dismissive avoidants in long term relationships and marriages Coach Ryan

4.7K views - 1 month ago

These three questions will EXPOSE avoidants on the first date

These three questions will EXPOSE avoidants on the first date Coach Ryan

1.4K views - 1 month ago

S*x with dismissive avoidants

S*x with dismissive avoidants Coach Ryan

3K views - 1 month ago

Avoidants don’t trust the second marshmallow (the marshmallow test)

Avoidants don’t trust the second marshmallow (the marshmallow test) Coach Ryan

1.7K views - 1 month ago

How the SECURE person handles the avoidant

How the SECURE person handles the avoidant Coach Ryan

6.5K views - 1 month ago

Why avoidants often compare you to an ex (the phantom ex)

Why avoidants often compare you to an ex (the phantom ex) Coach Ryan

1.4K views - 1 month ago

What avoidants say vs what they REALLY mean

What avoidants say vs what they REALLY mean Coach Ryan

3.3K views - 1 month ago

Avoidants Binge on Love… Then Purge You When It Gets Real

Avoidants Binge on Love… Then Purge You When It Gets Real Coach Ryan

2.5K views - 3 months ago

Avoidant: “The feelings are gone, and I don’t know why” 💔

Avoidant: “The feelings are gone, and I don’t know why” 💔 Coach Ryan

2.1K views - 3 months ago

The TOP dismissive avoidant trigger

The TOP dismissive avoidant trigger Coach Ryan

7.4K views - 3 months ago

Why avoidants feel “safer” with TOXIC partners

Why avoidants feel “safer” with TOXIC partners Coach Ryan

3.9K views - 3 months ago

Decode the Avoidant: 3 Lines That Don’t Mean What You Think

Decode the Avoidant: 3 Lines That Don’t Mean What You Think Coach Ryan

6K views - 3 months ago

Go NO contact with the avoidant ex!

Go NO contact with the avoidant ex! Coach Ryan

4.6K views - 3 months ago

The 4 main phases of the fearful avoidant relationship cycle

The 4 main phases of the fearful avoidant relationship cycle Coach Ryan

9.5K views - 3 months ago

The Dismissive Avoidant’s Favorite Trick: Make You Feel ‘Too Much’ for Wanting Love

The Dismissive Avoidant’s Favorite Trick: Make You Feel ‘Too Much’ for Wanting Love Coach Ryan

3K views - 4 months ago

Ask this question early: it’ll expose the avoidant INSTANTLY

Ask this question early: it’ll expose the avoidant INSTANTLY Coach Ryan

20.5K views - 4 months ago

The safer your prove, the more DANGEROUS you feel to the avoidant

The safer your prove, the more DANGEROUS you feel to the avoidant Coach Ryan

4.1K views - 4 months ago

Physical intimacy (s*x) with a dismissive avoidant

Physical intimacy (s*x) with a dismissive avoidant Coach Ryan

4.7K views - 4 months ago

Discussing attachment LIVE with @evolvedbydrchris

Discussing attachment LIVE with @evolvedbydrchris Coach Ryan

1.7K views - 4 months ago

The avoidant wasn’t BONDED to you 💔

The avoidant wasn’t BONDED to you 💔 Coach Ryan

9K views - 4 months ago

That “spark” with the avoidant is often ANXIETY in disguise

That “spark” with the avoidant is often ANXIETY in disguise Coach Ryan

1.5K views - 4 months ago

They’re teaching you to make avoidants feel “safe”— by abandoning yourself

They’re teaching you to make avoidants feel “safe”— by abandoning yourself Coach Ryan

5.6K views - 4 months ago

What do you ACTUALLY miss about the avoidant?

What do you ACTUALLY miss about the avoidant? Coach Ryan

3.1K views - 4 months ago

Avoidants often have exes that just won’t go away

Avoidants often have exes that just won’t go away Coach Ryan

7.3K views - 4 months ago

Dismissive avoidants have PREDICTABLE relationship histories

Dismissive avoidants have PREDICTABLE relationship histories Coach Ryan

2.3K views - 4 months ago

When the avoidant seems UNAFFECTED by the breakup

When the avoidant seems UNAFFECTED by the breakup Coach Ryan

2.2K views - 4 months ago

The messy situationship after the avoidant returns

The messy situationship after the avoidant returns Coach Ryan

4.9K views - 4 months ago

Will my avoidant ex come back?

Will my avoidant ex come back? Coach Ryan

3.3K views - 4 months ago